Waiting in the airport terminal,
rolling your eyes, checking the time, wearing a sweaty black tee and waiting to
see a significant other who lives far away. You're excited. You're aroused. But
there's something else, a nagging feeling that gurgles in your stomach. Is it
pangs of Confusion? Trust? Is he still the same?
Communications, distance,
and stress in long distance and geographically close romantic relationships confuse
and create a lot of mental stress. Right? Well I don’t think so. It’s all about
trust. Nothing else. In a relation since last six years where it is too difficult
to manage things, calls, meet and even know how we are. Faith did it all to
me. There was never ever a line of doubt
between us."Bonding
happens over time and creates deeper feelings,
Relating at a distance and negotiating
being together and being apart in long-distance relationships are one of the
major issues in today’s generation and with every youngster Although
many studies have shown that long distance relationships don’t work much. But then
it all depends on the couple. Their commitment.
Relationships
can be difficult and adding the considerable strain of long distance can make
it considerably harder. But
if two people love each other enough, then distance shouldn't matter, right?
Yet despite all the ways technology can help us stay in touch, long distance
relationships frequently fail to work out. I don’t believe in this. I strongly
believe it’s the love which keeps it alive and trust which never let it fail. Loneliness
will happen but it is important that you acknowledge and attempt to alleviate
those feelings. Never make promises or agree to goals you can't keep. He has
always honest with me about his career so I never call him back, we know our
priorities too.
It was all the
same, he was still the same when he was back. The care, the love and the
honesty. It gave me the courage to let him go and this time I was stronger and
so was my love.
Don't presume anything about the relationship unless you've
discussed it in depth. Avoid assumptions. People comment without any reason
even when our families don’t. Avoid their suggestions, it creates mess. It’s all
about trust.
“Distance doesn’t matter when the person is so near”