Monday, 18 June 2012


Waiting in the airport terminal, rolling your eyes, checking the time, wearing a sweaty black tee and waiting to see a significant other who lives far away. You're excited. You're aroused. But there's something else, a nagging feeling that gurgles in your stomach. Is it pangs of Confusion? Trust? Is he still the same? 

Communications, distance, and stress in long distance and geographically close romantic relationships confuse and create a lot of mental stress. Right? Well I don’t think so. It’s all about trust. Nothing else. In a relation since last six years where it is too difficult to manage things, calls, meet and even know how we are. Faith did it all to me.  There was never ever a line of doubt between us."Bonding happens over time and creates deeper feelings,
Relating at a distance and negotiating being together and being apart in long-distance relationships are one of the major issues in today’s generation and with every youngster Although many studies have shown that long distance relationships don’t work much. But then it all depends on the couple. Their commitment. 

Relationships can be difficult and adding the considerable strain of long distance can make it considerably harder. But if two people love each other enough, then distance shouldn't matter, right? Yet despite all the ways technology can help us stay in touch, long distance relationships frequently fail to work out. I don’t believe in this. I strongly believe it’s the love which keeps it alive and trust which never let it fail. Loneliness will happen but it is important that you acknowledge and attempt to alleviate those feelings. Never make promises or agree to goals you can't keep. He has always honest with me about his career so I never call him back, we know our priorities too.

It was all the same, he was still the same when he was back. The care, the love and the honesty. It gave me the courage to let him go and this time I was stronger and so was my love.
Don't presume anything about the relationship unless you've discussed it in depth. Avoid assumptions. People comment without any reason even when our families don’t. Avoid their suggestions, it creates mess. It’s all about trust.
“Distance doesn’t matter when the person is so near”



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