Because nowadays we love THINGS and Use PEOPLE/ Being materialistic.

Music, dance, a glass in hands, high on drugs and smoke. Drinking more than you drink water. Lust and craze is the only thing on mind. Parties, friends and socializing is all what we need ? Is he noticing me ? Did she see my new outfit ? Our city doesn't even has this. Am I being noticed ? The new stilettos and my new lip gloss. Well is he the new club member ? Looks rich, never saw him before. His wife carries a luis vitton every time I see her. So what if I don't have one. This isn't '' the must '' to have bag anyways. Though I want one but, never mind. Blackberry or an iphone ? Driving a pocket friendly car is no more a necessity or I must say a car is no more a  source of utility its a brand to show off. Keeping a driver even when you don't need one. Why ? Because its the oomph factor ! Yes, this is us. Earlier 10:30 was the time when we were off to bed, but now, its the time we go out, sleeping late night is the new madness, going for a family get together no more is fun rather boring, in fact even a small suggestion or a piece of advice tastes bitter to us. Yes, we behave like this. When earlier our fathers thought of buying things for our grandparents first, now we do the opposite, we first buy for ourselves and later think about others.  We do join NGO's to help others and needy but at home we don't know how to even talk and behave with our guardians and family. Why ? Is there something in the air which only we can taste or is it our group or the company we share ? Sadly because things are to be used and people are to be loved, but we are exactly doing the opposite. We love things and use people. Emotions, sentiments and our selflessness is killing everything. Will we tolerate this behavior if our kids do this with us ? This isn't just a observation but a experience. But there's still time before its too late. Let's change and bring the change. Let's take the first step towards start loving people and using things. Being materialistic can only ruin everything and give temporary satisfaction but being genuine can make you the best human. Frustration and irritation kills us only because we are being too pessimistic and off track.

Sounds too negative right ? Then think how others feel when we actually act like this ? 

So let's start using things and LOVING people.